Happy Jar 2018

So once again it’s time to go through the list – not actually a jar this year, but then saying Happy Envelope is slightly less fun sounding – and see what fab things happened last year and to show how much fab stuff happened that I would have forgotten.

I genuinely think that this helps me to focus more on the positive, I spend so much time stressing about tiny things that go wrong as opposed to just stepping back and seeing the bigger picture, I would definitely recommend this to everyone, even to try it just once, I think you’d be amazed at the things that get pushed away and replaced with bigger “more important” stuff!

So here we go……..

  • Baking my own bread
  • Claire is coming to Drag World with me!
  • Sitting on Maye’s balcony putting the world to rights
  • The man offering to walk me to work in the snow
  • more 5ks done
  • Molly @ drag world getting us backstage to meet Katya – arrrrrrrrggggggggg
  • face sparkles for day 2 at drag world
  • Light Up Poole – loving the pretty lights
  • Ed’s leaving drinks, love spending time with Amanda, she’s so funny
  • Working our way through Diablo 3 Hardcore – I may even manage to get 1 character through!
  • Watching the world cup – for once I sort of enjoyed it
  • Being called “Cute” by the ACTUAL Alaska
  • The surprise that Hans Enuf expressed when Claire asked for a pic “With me???”
  • Yummy baklava and wraps from the little shop near Drag World
  • Showing the man Stacey’s game collection – he was very jealous
  • RT’d be James O’Brien and liked over 100 times
  • Managed to get to work in the snow, may have taken much longer than normal but I did it
  • Angry Scots in the queue for Alaska giving me a glimpse of Sandra and bolstering my reserve.
  • Buying silly girl clothes and making the man laugh when I try to be feminine
  • Bringing in croissants for breakfast at work with Amy and Amanda
  • Lego Jurassic Park with S, so glad he puts up with my geekiness
  • Nice group of people at Slimming World
  • Confusing Katya by asking for a cuddle – who knew the American’s don’t use that word
  • Winning a tattoo for Drag world – I must learn to read competitions as I thought it was for an autograph!!
  • No negativity at drag world – everyone seemed to be comfortable and not judgy
  • Treating S to a breakfast in town before heading home for a games day – love our “weekends”
  • Sending out more letters and books
  • Super quick haircut – she may have cured me of my hairdresser fear
  • Raspberry pink hair dye, S still thinks I’m fit
  • Epic dog obviously not wanting to be taken for a walk at Hotel 65
  • Making new friends thanks to #PratchettPostal
  • Photo a day challenge done in Sept – I stuck to it!
  • Ordering more coffee and chili jams
  • sending a love box to Becky
  • passive aggressive graffiti in London
  • Tea at Claire’s, putting the world to rights and preparing for Drag world
  • Message from S while I was in London ” make memories to last a lifetime” – he is so sweet to me
  • Tesco’s macarons for dessert with fruit was a much better idea than the fat ones at the burger place we ate
  • Good to catch up with Andy – loved his reaction to seeing me “F*ck me mate, where’ve you gone?”
  • Chatting all the way up to London – so excited for this!
  • Buying NIN merch for S
  • being hungover and going to the George for fat Friday
  • Ben Murray bringing in sweet almond cake with caramel toffee sauce – epicness
  • long stressful week leading to a superb weekend
  • love the fact S now doesn’t work on Sundays
  • Gareth Southgate’s hug to the Columbian player who missed his penalty – top bloke
  • Nice breakkie in Hotel 65 – if only we’d have known about the queue we may not have loitered so long
  • watching the Architects review and holding S’s hand in case it was awful
  • Ankh Morpork bits from Sue – she got to go to the Emporium lucky thing!!
  • Being used as an example of a “good Pratchett fan” by the Emporium
  • Aiden Orange is such a lovely bloke, glad we met him
  • Having early morning laughs with Stacey at work
  • I love the feeling I have now I’m thinner, bit more comfortable as me
  • Seeing a massive car accident in Poole, glad everyone is safe
  • Lovely night with Claire and Charlie, always lovely to see them
  • Day on the 20’s nice to meet new drivers and to hear that he had retracted his resignation.
  • seeing Glemi in town, such a wonderful lady, miss her in my life
  • going door knocking for Poole Labour
  • getting more crafty bits, love making things, no matter how bad I am at it
  • waking the man up to cuddle and snuggle
  • blanket time on the sofa
  • introducing him to Drag Race
  • Dad’s birthday at full plate restaurant, more expensive but still great food
  • starting cross stitch for xmas gifts
  • sorting the filing cabinets at work – they will be more organised
  • 75 books so far sent for Pratchett Postal
  • finding a cute pic of Okto being bathed
  • Taking mum out for her birthday, love her so much
  • Dad has given me his other camera, I need to sort my skills and start focusing more
  • organising a food drive through work, so pleased so many people have got involved
  • White stuff dress with pockets from the doggy trust – like a quid!!
  • new table so we can board game, good business drive from mum – even getting us a discount
  • love it when he holds my hand
  • Alfie nearly making himself sick with quality street
  • Looking at flats together, our lives are moving on
  • Getting involved with Helping Hands in Bournemouth, great charity
  • Tiffany Snowflake necklace – love him so much
  • Pratchett Postal has also helped me, got some of the maps and some books that weren’t in my collection
  • Duelosaur Island received from Kickstarter
  • Issue with a missing card for Architects, fixed really quickly, am very impressed
  • getting chips down by the quay in the rain with S
  • Walking to Table Table for lunch in the summer
  • Buying lunch for 3 homeless in Poole, would hate to be in their shoes so always happy to help.
  • having a wonderful eve with my man
  • Claire and I possibly making it look like we were outing ourselves to Darienne Lake
  • Slimmer of the week!!
  • Going bowling with Amy, Amanda and her friends
  • Watching the “Nature of the Beast” documentary with mum
  • board game Sunday – love having him home for Sundays
  • getting involved and helping out with Defend Dorset NHS and Poole Labour
  • Helping out a new homeless person, Lee, seems lovely
  • Film day with S for my birthday
  • Valentines gaming – I am the champion
  • Claire saying she may come to Drag world, would be great to have a pal along
  • Roosters with mum – nice change from KFC
  • Sue and I talking parachute jumps
  • epic valentine’s day, massive bunch of roses, coffee, pizza tray and cacti
  • wonderful takeaway as a treat while imp on SW
  • Making bookmarks for the lovely Greebos lot
  • lovely working with Alison and Alan in cs
  • Meeting the tattooist at the con and being terrified of him until he found out who we were meeting and then he became really lovely!
  • Buying me flowers to make me smile
  • Seeing the beauties that are Emma and Rach, so pleased and confused as to why they still like me but so grateful they do!
  • Fun with the CS guys – who’d have thought it?
  • sprinkles cookie dough with pistachio ice cream
  • Angry Amanda buying me smellies for my birthday
  • doing some colouring in, very relaxing
  • new phone
  • Finding a good name for the Bonsai
  • Alfie asking for reports from June 2017 and when I sent them to him asking when they were for “June possibly?”
  • chicken pesto and moz panini – yum
  • Bringing in treats for my work colleagues
  • Okto likes to drink, and spit
  • more chili jams – i may have a problem
  • Amy getting a strike whilst bowling and being with 2 people doing Dry January!
  • The man winning Roll and an Ankh Morpork – possibly his best ever day
  • Looking after the man while his shoulder hurts
  • falling in the snow and seeing my homeless man who made me walk to work with him to make sure I’d be ok
  • dealing with the snow, learning to not be so afraid
  • being open with people about why imp so afraid of the snow
  • Charlie hides replied to me – shame we didn’t get to see her
  • mum meeting and scaring Alfie “ahhh the man of the buses”
  • signing up for yet another firewalk
  • buying silly games for S
  • New Pandemic purchased for us to work on!
  • wethers with S when we couldn’t go to see Charlie Hides
  • Slimming world stickers – best thing about it!
  • Seeing Drag Kings for the first time and getting new artist inspirations – Lolo Brow and Scarlett O’Hora
  • Recieving a Mr Grippy Badge – I am part of one of the best groups out there
  • Matt and Beth both doing really well, so proud to still have them in my life
  • phone calls with Liam and Bird, miss them so much
  • lovely message from darienne lake after we met her
  • Passed my theory test
  • booked tickets to see Phill Jupitus
  • offering cake for autographs, who knew I only needed badges for a photo instead
  • “I win everything apart from Roll” S – cue him winning
  • S calls EVERYTHING – MasterChef, bake off, apprentice etc.
  • Front row and MG tickets booked for Charlie Hides
  • Getting introduced to All Stars – not my fave but still, it’s more drag
  • Cactus from my love – Is it cos i’m a bit of a prick?
  • codenames and worms – I am getting better
  • Finding old photos at work and having to explain what negatives were, and the whole experience
  • Buying a Pratchett for #PratchettPostal and realising it is signed – paid double the asking price and got myself a bargain
  • Nice to bump into Chris Kent again, and always nice to be given flowers!
  • organising the tat drawers
  • George fat Friday lunch with Amy and Amanda
  • Tea that tastes of biscuits?
  • Katya smelt AMAZING
  • Angel Wing picture – one I actually kind of like of me
  • Wandering through bits of London to find our hotel, really close and a lovely but tiny room – very cute and it had tea stuff sorted – ideal!
  • loving simply cook – it’s fun to make things together and then enjoy yummy new meals
  • ordering west wing stuff
  • helping CS – glad I don’t have to do it much more
  • Butch Queen – I really hope he showered at least cos the outfit was tiny
  • sizing in Primark making me happy and then sad all in about 3 seconds
  • new pretty wedges
  • book chat on Facebook
  • looking at Prague zoo extensions – cannot wait to go back
  • coffee and dice play date with Amanda, Amy and Claire
  • all characters now at level 70 in Diablo
  • love our weekends off together – well mid-week weekends are the best
  • watching alien documentaries together – he is a  believer
  • Seeing Annelies and family and having a F^ck it meal
  • we’ve been together 6 years – 6 whole years
  • love spending time at Charlie and Claire’s, gorgeous garden in the sunshine
  • deep fried mac n cheese
  • going to clubbercize with Rach, she’s so much fun
  • Discworld Sunday – I am the champion
  • always nice to drop in and see the Rose red family
  • Codenames is a new but rock hard game, we are both rubbish!
  • RT’d by DJ Yoda
  • new cute lunchbox – whale of a time!
  • proud of myself to be able to handle the snow
  • Epic boss letting me go home early so I didn’t get too scared of the snow
  • make mixtapes great again
  • remembering how fun snow can be – heading to the water’s edge and getting some nice shots
  • writing more feels very liberating
  • signing up to walk 31 miles in Jan and actually completing  75miles instead
  • great meet up with Emma and Claire, wish I lived closer as they are both so wonderful
  • sprinkles with school friends
  • new phone
  • Canvas summer bags from work – actually nice stuff
  • Helping Diana with GDPR
  • Mum has lost so much weight, proud of her but don’t want her to be too tiny
  • Communing with WAY too many dogs on my Poole Park wanders
  • Even in snow I managed 10,000 steps a day throughout March for Cancer Research
  • Badges galore
  • he actually seemed to like his Valentine’s day card
  • Schooling him on Roll – one day my luck will run out but not yet
  • planning and actually doing a night out with Heather
  • a night of possibly making new friends
  • my life rules
  • I can do the SW thing, I will do this
  • Burgers as a treat in London, it was that or keep walking for ages!!
  • people at work being so lovely to me about my weight loss
  • Alfie explaining the difference between a canoe and a kayak
  • SW recipe books giving me more inspiration
  • getting a new laptop – well a cheap laptop to write more
  • Filing, organizing and shredding at work, lots to do but nice getting organised
  • Looking forward to our week off together, most time we’ve spent together in ever!!
  • Adam “is it the same as last year cos that’s how I’ve done it” – ok, that’ll be the same then!
  • Despite my fear, S always seems to believe in me
  • Winning an Alaska Funko from Ems on twitter, buying another and giving her to Claire
  • Positive lessons
  • Completed Hard-core – now on to the next level!
  • Exploring Instagram properly, fun to have a new medium to play with
  • Power cut whilst at Claire’s – thankfully the kettle had just boiled!!
  • Seeing Mayes – I miss her face so much, it’s weird only seeing her ever few weeks
  • People being lovely at work during the bad weather, offering to walk me home or the like.
  • Badge swaps at the Jupitus gig, glad to have been involved and will keep my badges forever
  • Mum doing chocolate dipped fruit for a dessert and wanting my help as “she didn’t know how to do it”
  • Dinner at Banana Wharf with Amy, Amanda and Karen – Amanda’s pal – lovely Italian food
  • Small flurries of snow
  • Coming into work through the snow to do the TMF – I know the boss was grateful and lovely of Diana and her husband to wait while I did it so they could lock up.
  • Re-discovering old albums throughout the year – Forever Faithless, Gold Against the Soul, Original Pirate Material and Complete Madness
  • Nikki getting cookies for us when I was in CS – bribery is always positive!
  • Love the feeling of fitting in smaller clothes, feel prettier and happier
  • Having a sod it meal when we saw Annelies and family – cheese, wine, fried things, sauces, yumminess
  • Looking through old pics of Becky’s. Miss her so much.
  • So great to bump into Lacei at Drag world, and to meet her daughter – it has been far too long!
  • Rhianna Pratchett liking my tweet about Granny Weatherwax – She didn’t do good by them, she did right by them.
  • Customer counting on the yellows
  • Starting Pratchett Postal, would be nice to see if I meet nice people and can share my love of Pratchett with the world
  • making mum laugh by my stupidness, so pleased our relationship is good
  • Cheeseboard and chili jams
  • Cuddles with my honey
  • Bianca del Rio autograph for the gorgeous Pixie, I miss her so much
  • Blog posts actually being read, not sure why but I’ll take it!
  • Traveline meeting – actually understood more this time and felt less of an idiot
  • Spending nights in summer just talking and putting the world to rights with the man
  • Signing up for the Poole 5k
  • getting odd socks – best thing for laundry ever
  • Buying silly gifts for friends, sending love packages to Beth, Matt and Becky.
  • Lovely meal with S at Holes Bay, nice summer walk and lunch
  • The colour run – 10m faster than the last one
  • Hitting target at Slimming World – size 12!!!
  • Summer walks round the park with the man, love where we live
  • Making a new friend at the colour run, so glad that Steph was taking part too, she helped motivate me and is a lovely girl to have a laugh with
  • Actually winning at Colditz – escaping in the commander’s car!
  • SW isn’t as frightening as I thought, there were some really lovely friendly people there
  • Organising a Drag Bag for Claire and our weekend away!
  • Alfie moaning about the latest timetable art which is “false advertising as it’s got an E200 on the front and they don’t do that route”
  • Losing at Pandemic and being cooked a conciliation omelette by the KING of eggs
  • Restarting Minecraft
  • Nick bringing in epic trifle for before Xmas – even Alfie came back for it!
  • 5k at Poole done, 43.22 – not as fast as id have liked, feel like death but glad I did it, hopefully next year would be better
  • losing weight, so pleased things are moving and looking forward to being a bit thinner
  • Marc and Nick laughing when I said Pancentric lied to me and turning the screens towards each other to show the lie
  • Phill Jupitus eve with mum, epic night, lots of laughs and got a selfie too
  • Buying a new lunchbox and diary for SW – I will lose weight and will be healthier
  • Driving a day on the dual carriageways, it is getting easier – slowly and surely
  • Speaking with Sandra, suggesting I go and see her once she’s back in Competa, so pleased she’s getting better
  • Bumped into Kev when I was in Bournemouth, bought him lunch. Glad I managed to do this before he passed away, hate feeling like he was alone at the end.
  • Badges for my summer bag
  • Pretzel Dog lunches – a proper treat and a lovely couple in charge, hope they stay for a long time
  • Neil Gaiman liked my tweet!!!
  • Getting a gorgeous love box from Beth 🙂
  • Nick, Rachelle and the kids coming and seeing me at Winton Sally craft fair
  • Buying PretzelDog for the homeless I know, they are such a lovely couple in there, am happy to help out
  • Rhianna, Stephen, Disc Emporium all helping me to get PratchettPostal off the ground by RTing and spreading the word.
  • I actually feel like i’m making good friends online, even without meeting them
  • Hearing all about Denise’s holiday plans
  • Snowflake necklace from S for xmas, possibly the best xmas gift i’ve ever had – so beautiful
  • seeing the boy ROCKING his gold high heels on our way to Dragworld
  • Introducing the man to Drag Race, not sure if he’d like it then getting a text the next day asking to watch more – ONE OF US!
  • Got a takeaway with S and an early night as helping out in CS is going to be a nightmare!
  • Starting to look at flats – our lives are moving forwards
  • England had a brilliant world cup – even I got involved in the excitement
  • Buying new clothes – smaller sizes
  • Duvet down and lots of computer silly games
  • Going for walks in the summer once the sun has gone down a bit – less blisteringly hot
  • ice creams together in Poole Park
  • Meeting Rach in town for a coffee – we will plan on SW and clubbercize together
  • Worms champion!
  • First SW target (10%) hit on week 14
  • Baking bread, can feel my confidence growing
  • asking S if he wanted to come see the Queen film and getting a response of “let me get my tache and cape”
  • Message from Mrs Kasha Davis ❤
  • walking round complimenting so many people at DragWorld, they looked so beautiful
  • Finishing the X stitch for S for xmas
  • getting thud for xmas, fun but not sure we’ll ever be experts
  • Emma liking her Pampling T – Disney Princesses
  • Making my own bread, feels amazing but very bad for me – will need it to be an infrequent thing!
  • I love the fact the he is being more open with me, I want us to be stronger together
  • Peanut butter with no palm oil!
  • 7 day black and white challenge completed
  • Sitting in McDonalds and catching up with old friends
  • Nick telling everyone to read last year’s list – he’s always so lovely to me and supportive
  • Making soup to go with my bread – feel very house on the prairie
  • Going to Stabcon South and playing new games and also seeing a (sort of, very minor) gaming celeb.
  • Denise buying cakes for CS and popping one in to me – epic work mum!
  • Soup and sandwiches – we’re so rock and roll
  • Meal at the Shah with mum, dad and the man – last meal out before I start SW
  • Getting sent files for PratchettPostal by a lovely person on Twitter – now my background pic, really lovely touch making it look more professional
  • New games for us to play – Iberia is very fun
  • I’m so lucky I have such a great man, he is so wonderful to me
  • making a chicken bacon and leek pie, sharing a pic and being nagged to make one for work too
  • Genuinely enjoyed Phill Jupitus, a great show and very nice person
  • Chatting with Claire, miss seeing her everyday but so lucky we still keep in touch
  • RT’d by David Baddiel
  • Buying Colditz as a whim, never gonna win but hey, a new game……wait….how long are the games????
  • Gamster T for my Gamster
  • size 14 and getting my stone loss award  – exciting
  • Helping mum in the garden, not my favourite thing but love
  • helping the homeless is becoming a bit of an obsession
  • Love my work mates, watering Shiri whilst I was away
  • Started watching the Alienist
  • phew Childish Gambino is HAWT
  • Seeing Bohemian Rhapsody with Mum and S, a very fun time and a great film.
  • Possibly looking at a cheap sunny holiday, would be lovely to just chill out and enjoy the sun
  • Looking at a house together, it didn’t work out but looking forward to us having our lives move forward
  • Slow cooker fun with S – chicken curry, sausage casseroles and bolognaise – really looking forward to seeing what else we can create
  • Signing up for more runs, I will hit my target at some point!
  • getting a lovely response letter – with handmade seal from a Pratchett Postal recipient
  • so pleased people seem to be getting involved with the Pratchett Postal – 50 books sent so far
  • So many lovely people online
  • toasties are my new favourite thing
  • Claire buying me the “Dammit Janet” necklace
  • Being part of the AFP club, she speaks to me and it really resonates, glad to be helping her out at the same time
  • mail from Miz Cracker – little bit in love
  • Starting to back things on Kickstarter
  • Love it when he tells me he loves me
  • Seeing Kelly’s photos -shes such a wonderful model
  • RT’d by the book trust “what have childhood books taught you?” Pooh Bear was my inspiration
  • not being sure we’re going the right way until we got on the tube to see people wearing glitter, feathers and a lot of bling – we found our tribe
  • looking at possible summer holidays with S would love to go somewhere warm together
  • epic lunch at work, great team and we all seem to pull together well
  • Architects of West Kingdom arrived safely after 8 months
  • Meeting Nathan Law at Drag world
  • Charity shop bargain – finding Catan for 3 quid
  • Feeling more confident with my reports – glad to know I am helping at work and fitting into the team
  • Funky jewellery from Over the Rainbow
  • Vinyl arrived for S for his Xmas gift, ltd. edition NIN new album
  • Beanies coffee may be my new obsession
  • looking into doing a fire and ice walk
  • buying Pampling stuff for friends and loved ones
  • Amy and Amanda came and supported me at the colour run
  • mum and dad as always the ones who support me most
  • Homeless man with a laptop – mums epic classic lack of observation rises again as it was actually a BT engineer
  • getting organised with VOSA at work, glad to be taking more control over bits at work
  • Being bought Lin Manual Miranda’s book by a random stranger thanks to Pratchett Postal
  • RT’d by mama herself, Michelle Visage
  • Playing Newmarket with S mum and dad on Boxing day, lovely snacky food and nibbles and as always fun times
  • silent discos on a sat morning while the man is at work
  • Meeting young Thanos at Stabcon South
  • Trying a variety of the Cornish bake houses products simply to find something that holds the warmth
  • nagging the boss to go home after his hospital time, good that he eventually will listen to me
  • Making my own sushi – this could become completely obsessive!
  • Buying myself Ru’s signed book
  • Listening to Bianca Del Rios book, love how salty yet loving she is
  • starting doing cross stitch things with S, he’s so creative
  • waking up for cuddles on a Sunday
  • lessons seem to be going ok, getting more confident
  • Calling dad for bread advice
  • finding new games for S for Xmas, hope he likes them
  • filling my fridge with SW friendly foods – I will lose weight
  • Heading to Stabcon with S, looking forward to new games and meeting people
  • Great that Amy came to Stabcon, lovely to spend time with her and great she gets on so well with S, makes him more comfortable
  • meeting mayes for breakkie, within about 5 mins we’ve caught up on all news
  • Popping to Bos Vegas to see Andy, always nice to see the fella
  • Played Catan, Ticket to Ride, Tobago and Isle of Skye when at Soton
  • love the fact he holds my hand when we go out
  • Brave S coming into the office as he forgot his keys
  • Ginger Minj wearing trainers!
  • adopting Okto ❤
  • Really sweet text from S looking forward to us being somewhere new and together
  • meeting S for lunch and despite the rain he got out a carrier for us to sit on so we didn’t get wet bums
  • cleaning the flat and buying flowers, all to make it beautiful
  • clearing out the old cupboard, nice to lighten up the rubbish we have
  • taking mum for coffee in Poole
  • dad’s birthday at Full Plate, so pleased my parents and S all seem to get on
  • Love him for always saying yes when I ask him to do stuff, he does so much for me
  • Seagull vs the man whilst we had a mixed fillings sandwich – the seagull won
  • Cooking sausage casserole while we wandered round town and then back to play games
  • RT’d by RICHARD SCHIFF!!!!!
  • Finding the West Wing Weekly on Spotify!
  • getting Cougar town on boxset for like a quid
  • Over 100 books sent out for #PratchettPostal. Am blown away and looking forward to something equally as random in 2019!
  • Lots of people getting involved in Pratchett Postal
  • He’s so supportive of my photos – suggesting photo ideas for the future
  • RT’d by Pro Green
  • Getting to scratch off more of my 40 for 40 challenges.
  • He is just so lovely to me. Felt rubbish today at work and he gave me big hugs and totally catered to my whims

so there we go – finally! I’m sure there’s little things i’ve forgotten but overall, I would say this is a pretty good list. Here’s to a brill 2019 and I hope for those who read this, they aren’t too confused or embarrassed!!

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